Sex toys have been around in one form or another for hundreds of years but they are becoming more popular than ever in modern day society. Often referred to as marital aids, adult toys facilitate sexual pleasure for couples or for solo use. A recent study of the Temptations Direct website purchaser figures illustrates that the proportion of women and men buying adult toys is a fairly even split with 52% of women and 48% of men being consumers. If you are new to marital aids and want to try them out for the first time to heighten sexual satisfaction and spice up your bedroom activities but are unsure what sort of toy to buy this guide could help you to make a decision.
What type of sex toy is the best to start off with?
Which sex toy to start with is one of the first things to consider when thinking about the potential purchase of an adult toy? Adult toys come in many different guises: dildos, cock rings, anal sex toys, male and female sex pumps, sex dolls, strap ons and vibrators to name but a few. If you want to experience a penetrative sex toy for the first time it is a good idea to try something that has some degree of flexibility such as a jelly dildo. Non penetrative adult toys such as cock rings that are made of silicon or rubber have some give in them and can help to prolong an erection which is firmer and fuller that can lead to increased sexual satisfaction for both parties. These cock rings have far more flexibility than rigid metal cock rings, which cause considerable restriction to the wearer.
Size and cost matters
Other important factors to consider are size and cost. Start small and work up to bigger martial aids when you are more experienced. Mini vibrators deliver a fantastic orgasm but are small enough to be transported just about anywhere. You also do not want to spend a considerable amount on your first purchase if you are unsure whether you will enjoy the experience of a sex toy. Small vibrators start from as low as £4, jelly dildos are anything from £10 and cock rings retail from as little as £2 and therefore do not result in a considerable outgoing.
Use sexual lubricants
If you are a beginner to penetrative adult toys it is always advisable to use a sexual lubricant. This is especially important in the use of anal sex toys as neither the anus nor the rectum naturally produce their own lubrication so it is imperative that anal lubrication is used for more pleasurable and comfortable anal sex toy pursuits. Moreover, some anal gels and sprays are specifically designed to condition the tissues surrounding the anus and relax the anal muscles, therefore making penetration considerably easier. Anal finger stimulators are ideal for first timers to anal play as not only are they small and inexpensive but they are often made of soft silicone making penetration far more comfortable.
Sunday, 25 December 2011
Friday, 23 December 2011
I Want Sex Toys During Sex
Question: I want to bring sex toys into our bedroom but don't know how my guy will react.
Introducing sex toys into your regular sex routine can be quite simple if you think a few things through beforehand.
Before buying a sex toy make sure to:
Talk about bringing new toys in before you go shopping
Broach the topic with your partner outside of the bedroom when you're both in a good mood. Surprising your partner with a new toy will most likely get their defensive hackles up, as they will automatically assuming they're not a good enough lover.
Start with the basics
Your list should include candles, lubricant, massage oils, educational books, and a romantic game. Once you get used to using these items in your bedroom, it's time to introduce toys.
Negotiate what you both would be comfortable with
Do you want something romantic, sensual or highly erotic? Something that vibrates or not? How much do you want to spend? Is quality important to you?
Educate yourself on what toys are made of
Most toys on the market are poor quality and some are even harmful to the body. Make sure to read labels and look for toys produced by reputable companies which are made of 100% silicone, 100% elastomer, or food grade vinyl. Many toys say they're made of 'silicone' when only 10% of the toy is silicone.
Introducing sex toys into your regular sex routine can be quite simple if you think a few things through beforehand.
Before buying a sex toy make sure to:
Talk about bringing new toys in before you go shopping
Broach the topic with your partner outside of the bedroom when you're both in a good mood. Surprising your partner with a new toy will most likely get their defensive hackles up, as they will automatically assuming they're not a good enough lover.
Start with the basics
Your list should include candles, lubricant, massage oils, educational books, and a romantic game. Once you get used to using these items in your bedroom, it's time to introduce toys.
Negotiate what you both would be comfortable with
Do you want something romantic, sensual or highly erotic? Something that vibrates or not? How much do you want to spend? Is quality important to you?
Educate yourself on what toys are made of
Most toys on the market are poor quality and some are even harmful to the body. Make sure to read labels and look for toys produced by reputable companies which are made of 100% silicone, 100% elastomer, or food grade vinyl. Many toys say they're made of 'silicone' when only 10% of the toy is silicone.
Friday, 25 November 2011
What Do Men Think of Girl's Sex Toys?
Most men think they are God's gift to women in bedroom, bringing their ladies pleasure, orgasm and satisfaction. However, there are some toys disagree with such idea, by claiming that they are women's favorites. It's not secret or big news that women have their own sex toys. But what do men think of it?
Some men consider it humiliating or threatening of being replaced by sex toys.
Most men who hate adult toys are afraid that they might be replaced. As we all know, sex toys are more and more popular, they could give women the enjoyment that most men could not give, and the best thing is that they don't shrink. But you can think from the other aspect that men can do much more than what a dildo are able to do. If you feel threatened, then you have no confidence in yourself at all or are too ego to accept other sides of your girl. Thus, be open to your girl's desire and get to know her deeper in case they think of you selfish and tedious. If you do not try, you'll just never know what will happen.
Other men think it is welcome as sex toys can enhance their sexual life and relationships.
Some men consider it humiliating or threatening of being replaced by sex toys.
Most men who hate adult toys are afraid that they might be replaced. As we all know, sex toys are more and more popular, they could give women the enjoyment that most men could not give, and the best thing is that they don't shrink. But you can think from the other aspect that men can do much more than what a dildo are able to do. If you feel threatened, then you have no confidence in yourself at all or are too ego to accept other sides of your girl. Thus, be open to your girl's desire and get to know her deeper in case they think of you selfish and tedious. If you do not try, you'll just never know what will happen.
Other men think it is welcome as sex toys can enhance their sexual life and relationships.
Wednesday, 23 November 2011
Phthalates in Sex Toys
What are phthalates?
Chemical use in sex toys has been unregulated for a long time and has most recently been exposed by Greenpeace who called to make the usage of phthalates prohibited in sexual aids for the sake of our health and well being and the environment.
Pronounced 'thal-ates' they are chemicals employed in the production of plastic materials for making them softer and more pliable, employed as a plasticizer (substances added to plastics to increase their flexibility, transparency, durability, and longevity) they've been used from the 1920's, produced by phthalic acid, phthalates are employed in numerous goods from perfume, pesticide, plastics and sex toys.The most widely-used phthalates are the di-2-ethyl hexyl phthalate (DEHP), the diisodecyl phthalate (DIDP) and the diisononyl phthalate (DINP)
What do phthalates do to the environment?
Phthalates are very easily released into the natural environment given that there's no bond between the phthalates and plastics in which they're blended. As the material ages the rate of release speeds up, they take a lengthy time for it to break down and degrade.
Phthalates were banned from children's toys
In 2005 the EU banned the use of the phthalate DEHP in children's toys considering of its detrimental effect on young children. Even though the sex toy industry still goes unregulated.
Why do they use phthalates in sex toys if they are harmful?
The primary reason companies use phthalates is due to the fact they are cheap. The adult toy industry has been inundated with low-cost, sleazy goods for many years with little regard to the health of users. Fortunately now anybody who loves sex and uses sex toys on a frequent basis is able to do so with out associated risk to their health.
How do phthalates cause harm to the body?
There's a growing body of investigation that suggests phthalates have a toxic effect, which includes hormone disruption affecting female estregen levels along with the male reproductive system.
Studies on rodents have revealed that when exposed to really huge doses, phthalates can trigger damage to the liver, lungs, kidneys, testes and can cause hormonal disruption. The most current analysis shows that exposure to these substances can upset the body's capacity to regulate hormone production, damage reproduction, and cause liver and kidney defects. They can also possibly cause cancer.
Chemical use in sex toys has been unregulated for a long time and has most recently been exposed by Greenpeace who called to make the usage of phthalates prohibited in sexual aids for the sake of our health and well being and the environment.
Pronounced 'thal-ates' they are chemicals employed in the production of plastic materials for making them softer and more pliable, employed as a plasticizer (substances added to plastics to increase their flexibility, transparency, durability, and longevity) they've been used from the 1920's, produced by phthalic acid, phthalates are employed in numerous goods from perfume, pesticide, plastics and sex toys.The most widely-used phthalates are the di-2-ethyl hexyl phthalate (DEHP), the diisodecyl phthalate (DIDP) and the diisononyl phthalate (DINP)
What do phthalates do to the environment?
Phthalates are very easily released into the natural environment given that there's no bond between the phthalates and plastics in which they're blended. As the material ages the rate of release speeds up, they take a lengthy time for it to break down and degrade.
Phthalates were banned from children's toys
In 2005 the EU banned the use of the phthalate DEHP in children's toys considering of its detrimental effect on young children. Even though the sex toy industry still goes unregulated.
Why do they use phthalates in sex toys if they are harmful?
The primary reason companies use phthalates is due to the fact they are cheap. The adult toy industry has been inundated with low-cost, sleazy goods for many years with little regard to the health of users. Fortunately now anybody who loves sex and uses sex toys on a frequent basis is able to do so with out associated risk to their health.
How do phthalates cause harm to the body?
There's a growing body of investigation that suggests phthalates have a toxic effect, which includes hormone disruption affecting female estregen levels along with the male reproductive system.
Studies on rodents have revealed that when exposed to really huge doses, phthalates can trigger damage to the liver, lungs, kidneys, testes and can cause hormonal disruption. The most current analysis shows that exposure to these substances can upset the body's capacity to regulate hormone production, damage reproduction, and cause liver and kidney defects. They can also possibly cause cancer.
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